RELATING RIGHT ACADEMY

WHY ALL THESE TALKS ON RELATIONSHIP I think there is more to this thing call relationship!  Come, is there something you are not telling us, why are you so particular about this relating thing? What a question to ask! yes dearie, there is more to it and I'll tell you today, may be you'll be able to catch the spark and be ignited.  I don't just talk about relationship because am a relationship coach, for me it's a CALLING and a MINISTRY rather than COACHING and MONEY business.  If I don't talk about it, I am not my father's daughter.  Is it that serious? yes it is. Blessed are the peace makers for they shall be called the sons of God.  If my father's business is to build relationship why will I do something different? I am the true daughter of my father and so I will also build relationships, not ruin them.  The only test we are here to pass, is the relationship test.  The greatest Commandment upon which both the law...

   In the last article I concluded with the statement "but come to think of it, what if the man who is to groom her, is not even groomed? the effect will be catastrophic"   I will be starting from there today .   Most men aren't groomed so becoming their Brides groom will be difficult or almost unrealistic. There is a big problem in our society today that we have failed to recognize as a problem and since we didn't see it as one we cannot solve it.   The male child is sidelined while all the talking and advocacy is about the female child.         My brother, Pele Olabanji wrote and I quote "Show not to the children the ancient paths that led to the insanity of their fathers who now roam about the streets naked, leaving them in such an abysmal state. You may open them up to the forces that turned their fathers to lunatics" reflect on that .             How can we treat the wounds leaving the cause of the wou...

Every female is like a raw material waiting to be explored, extracted, refined and processed into finished products.  Although every woman/lady falls into this category, they however differ in the stages in which they are. Some are in the unexplored stage, some in the extracted stage, some in the refining stage and some are already a finished product(very very few falls in this category).  As man when you meet a woman/lady and you like her, try to find out what stage she's in. The understandingK of the stage she's in will help you to make the right moves on the kind of relationship to  make with her.  Proposing to a woman/lady who's in the unrefined stages(unexplored or extracted) is the greatest mistake you can make as man .   A woman who has not gotten her Identity, who hasn't gotten purpose clarity or discover her gifts and ability is dangerous to herself first and to whoever befriends her. So the first thing to do if you're interested in such is to help expl...